Wait… Where Do We Even Get Married?
If you’re in a bi-national relationship, chances are you’ve hit at least one wall trying to figure out where and how to legally get married.
Maybe your home country has a 6-month residency requirement. Maybe your partner’s country doesn’t allow international marriage without impossible paperwork. Or maybe you’re both expats with passports full of stamps and zero patience for bureaucracy.
We were right there too. My wife is from the Philippines, I’m German. We love each other, we wanted to get married, and we had no idea where to do it. The options were confusing, slow, or legally complicated. Some countries required weeks (or months!) of waiting. Others wouldn’t recognize our documents.
Then we discovered Hong Kong. And everything changed.
Why Hong Kong? Here’s What Makes It Special
Let me tell you why Hong Kong is one of the smartest (and most overlooked) wedding destinations for international couples:
No residency requirement — You don’t have to live in Hong Kong or even stay long.
Fast and efficient — You can legally marry in as little as 17 working days from application.
Globally recognized marriage certificate — The Hong Kong marriage certificate is valid and accepted in almost every country.
Legal and secular — No religious ceremonies required. Perfect for couples from different cultural or faith backgrounds.
English-speaking government services — All the official forms and ceremonies can be done in English.
Safe, modern, and well-connected — Easy flights from most countries, great infrastructure, and simple logistics.
For us, it felt like a legal “cheat code.” We couldn’t believe how simple it actually was—once we figured it out.
But I won’t lie: there are still some steps, forms, and pitfalls to navigate. And if you don’t get it right, you could delay your wedding or risk wasting your trip.
Next up, let’s talk about the timing.
How Long Does It Take to Get Married in Hong Kong?
Here’s the short version:
You submit your Notice of Intended Marriage at least 17 working days before your wedding day.
Then you fly to Hong Kong, attend one pre-wedding appointment at the Marriage Record Office at least 2 working days before your ceremony and then it's time for your big day—typically a quick civil ceremony at the Registry.
We planned everything from abroad and spent 10 days in Hong Kong for the actual wedding trip plus sight-seeing but you can get it done much faster if you want.
What Was the Ceremony Like?
Honestly? Super chill.
It’s a quick civil ceremony (usually 10–15 minutes). You walk in with your witnesses, show your passports, and confirm your identities.
The registrar reads a short marriage declaration, you declare that you want to marry each other, sign the documents, and boom—you’re married.
There’s no walk down the aisle. No music. No flower girl. But there is formality. It’s dignified, professional, and emotionally significant. And you can absolutely dress up, bring a photographer, and make it feel special. We did!
Our nerves melted once we stood in front of the registrar. Even though we knew it was short and simple, hearing the words felt real. It was official. Legal. And so meaningful after everything we’d gone through to get there.
What You Need to Bring (Besides Your Partner)
You’ll need:
Valid passports
Ceremony fee HK$715
Two witnesses
Each country has different rules for document validation, so this is where a lot of couples trip up. It’s important to double-check what your home country requires for recognition.
A Quick Look at Costs
Here’s what we spent (approximate):
Marriage Registration Fee: HKD 305 (~USD 39)
Ceremony Fee (Cotton Tree Drive): HKD 715 (~USD 92)
Document Notarization (abroad): USD 20–50 depending on location
Apostille Fee (after marriage): HKD 125 (~USD 16)
Flights + Accommodation: Varies based on your origin and budget
All in, we spent way less of what most international weddings cost.
And unlike destination weddings, this was 100% legal and globally recognized.
What About Language?
All services are available in English and Chinese. No need for a translator, even for legal documents, as long as your paperwork is in English or Chinese.
Our registrar conducted the whole ceremony in English, and every form we filled out was bilingual. For couples like us, with different mother tongues, this neutral ground made everything much smoother.
Our Biggest Advice: Plan It Right
Yes, Hong Kong is simple—if you do it properly.
We read forums, emailed government offices, double-checked document formats, and made sure our timeline was airtight. It wasn’t hard, but it required attention to detail.
If you don’t want to deal with that yourself, agencies can help—but they can be expensive and you need to find a reliable one that you can trust.
That’s why we ended up creating our own step-by-step system. We wanted to help other couples like us save time, money, and stress—without paying thousands for a wedding planner.
Final Thoughts: Why We Recommend It
Getting married in Hong Kong was one of the best decisions we made as a couple.
We skipped the drama, the red tape, the long waits. We said “I do” in a beautiful city that welcomed us—without asking us to jump through impossible hoops. And we walked away legally married, with a document that the world actually respects.
If you’re an international couple wondering how and where to tie the knot… seriously, consider Hong Kong. It’s fast, fair, and refreshingly free of nonsense.
Why I Created This Course — And How It Can Help You
After going through the whole process, I realized there’s no single place that walks you through the entire thing from A to Z.
So I built it.
The course I wish we had.
It’s called "Get Married in Hong Kong: Fast, Simple & Internationally Recognized" — and it’s packed with:
Step-by-step instructions for every single part of the process
40+ page eBook
Templates, checklists, and sample forms
Guidance for Apostilles and embassy steps
Personal tips from someone who actually did it
I don’t want you to waste weeks googling, second-guessing, or ending up in bureaucratic limbo. If Hong Kong is the right choice for you, I want you to get married and get on with your life together.